THE LIST OF THINGS THAT WILL NOT CHANGE BY REBECCA STEAD

The List of Things That Will Not Change by Rebecca Stead is an endearing story told from the point of view of 12-year-old Beatrice. Her mum and dad are divorced and the story opens with the news her dad is marrying his partner Jesse. Some people might find it confusing she explains, as at the first wedding her dad was marrying her mum but at the second wedding he is going to marry a man.

Bea lives part time with both her parents and the inner turmoil she suffers at the split in their family group is eased by visiting a therapist, Miriam. Bea has a way of looking at the world that is honest and refreshing even if it is confusing for her. She spends time each day seriously contemplating her worries and in the process hopefully banishing them from her mind.

Bea is keen that everyone gets on and that life is fair. She also is working on how to manage her anger and easily hurt feelings. We follow her through her days divided between two households and dreaming of having a sister. This particular dream looks as though it may come true as Jesse has a daughter from his first marriage too. Preparations are made for the wedding day and Bea moves through her busy emotional landscape with feelings that sometimes threaten to overwhelm her.

Rebecca Stead’s novel draws you in. Bea’s way of looking at the world and its nuances, and her invitation to others to take time out to notice them, makes you want to give her a big hug. In fact, reading this book is just like a big, comforting hug with a serving of hot chocolate in the side. The language, and the atmosphere of loving kindness are beautifully portrayed and the budding wisdom of Bea leave the reader feeling better about themselves and the world around them.

For Ages: 8-12 years

Number of Pages: 216 in paperback.

Published: April 2020

Themes: Family, emotions, resilience and forgiveness.

Rating: 4.5/5